The Reluctant Woman of Distinction

My wife thought they got the files mixed up.

tinalear
5 min readMar 2, 2023
photo by Tina Lear

This is a picture of my wife, Elena Terrone. She has been chosen by our representative, Assemblywoman Michaelle C. Solages, to be honored as a Woman of Distinction for a ceremony taking place on March 19, 2023 at the nearby high school.

Unless you know her personally, she’s nobody to you. And because of that, she was completely baffled to have been chosen, and very reluctant to receive this honor. In her mind, a woman of distinction has to have done something. Something extraordinary. Something against all odds. And she doesn’t see herself that way at all.

But I do. And so does anyone who knows her well.

As far as extraordinary achievements, if you twist her arm, she’ll admit to this: In 1982, she was sworn in as a NYC firefighter by then Mayor Ed Koch. She attended proby school on Randall’s island along with the small group of pioneering women entering this esteemed branch of civil service for the first time in history. Ultimately after serious personal deliberation she chose not to commit to this career.

So. That’s not nothing.

And by the way, can you imagine the kind of resistance (I’m trying to use nice language here) that she and the other women met, when they decided to sign up…

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tinalear

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