Our inheritance doesn’t come to us from our parents.

IT IS CREATED BY OUR ACTIONS.

tinalear
5 min readFeb 23, 2023
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The saying goes, “You can’t take it with you.” And with regard to our body, our possessions, our beloved family and friends, they’re right. The diamonds and the drinking buddies stay behind.

But there’s one thing we do take with us. It’s the only thing we own: Our actions. It’s the only thing we create, the only thing we can leave behind.

For instance, I’ve been thinking there’s nothing I can do about the women in countries run by the Taliban, about the atrocities in Ukraine, about the epidemic of mass shootings in our own country, or the melting icebergs, or the child sex trafficking that is going on in high and low places everywhere.

But it’s not true. There are things I can do. They’re not very gratifying because a) no one will know about it, and b) I won’t live long enough to see whether it worked or not. But there are things I can and must do.

I have spent a great deal of my life as part of the problem.
Now I have the rest of my life to be part of the solution.

To do that, though, I have to stop running away from the mess.

There’s a Buddhist Sutra called the Five Remembrances where I learned about the importance of my…

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tinalear

Novelist. Poet. Musician. Buddhist. Quilter. Animal lover. Visible grownup. Hidden child. Secret dancer when all alone. Makes good bread.